Get Physical

Sex Toys That Will Help You Chill TF Out

by Isabella Gomez

You probably remember the Sex and the City episode about “the Rabbit,” aka the vibrator that made Charlotte cancel all her plans. Her friends eventually managed to drag her out of her apartment, but Char’s obsession is understandable — it’s not always easy to figure out which sex toys are right for you. Can you blame a girl for squeezing in some extra playtime when she finds ~the one~?

The market has come a long way in the last 20 years (yes, it’s been almost that long since the episode aired). As we learn more and more about how getting off can be good for your health, it’s also important to break down the stigmas surrounding what we use to get there. Here are our top six picks from women-led, educational companies that want to take your O-game to the next level.

Eva II by Dame

This little number from Dame isn’t just cute. It’s versatile! The Eva II features two adjustable wings you can use to hold it in place, leaving your hands free to take care of business elsewhere. Whether you’re flying solo or with a partner, this vibrator blisses out your clitoris while still making sure you can seek pleasure in other places.

The Heart by Chakrubs

Yes, a dildo-shaped crystal. Rose quartz, to be exact. What we love most about Chakrubs’ products is that they align your spiritual and sexual energy for a powerful experience. For some users, they’re a perfect way to heal from sexual trauma and reconnect with their body. This specific dildo is aimed at the Heart Chakra for “dissolving emotional wounds, fears and resentments,” according to the Chakrubs site.

Squish by Unbound

Not to be mistaken for a makeup blender, the Squish is one of our favorite new vibrators. The harder you squeeze, the more intense the vibrations become. It’s the perfect way to control pressure and speed as you get closer to your happy place. With 5+ settings and a completely waterproof silicone exterior, this is one hand workout you’ll be happy to do over and over.

Satisfyer Pro 2 

For those of you who prefer indirect stimulation, but don’t want to scale back on the fun—this is one innovative and intense ride. With a silicone cap that perfectly encapsulates your clitoris, the Satifyer Pro 2 sends out pressure through pulsating waves that are sure to get you tingling in no time. The orgasms get stronger with each of the 11 levels, and babes… it’s even better in the tub. Pair with your favorite bath bomb and a glass of vino for the ultimate #mychilltime. 

Nipple and Clit Clamp by Unbound

If you enjoy a little glam kink action, this set is for you. These 14k goldplated clamps are a chic way to kick your sensitivity up a notch in those extra-erogenous areas. You can easily switch up how much pressure you want to apply by using together or separately. Looking like a snack while you’re treated like one? For $34 a set, you really have no excuse not to try them out.  

Luxe Little Thumper Butt Plug at Wild Flower

You didn’t really think we’d forget about this part of your bod, did you? This silicone plug is the perfect, most fulfilling, and dynamic toy for getting the fun going down under. Completely waterproof, it also includes a removable vibrating bullet with five different speeds and rhythms. 

Feature image via Unbound

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